When there’s a job that becomes available at any workplace, management already has the ideal candidate for the position in mind. They know whether they want someone internally or externally the moment the job becomes available. If an internal person has been decided upon, of course they’ll advertise anyway for reasons of legality and equality – it’s all a facade. I know this as I was second-in-charge and routinely covered my boss’ role. Continue reading “A Working Mum Series Part 2”
So after many sleepless nights, I have decided to go for the job. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, you can read about my motherhood / career struggles here. I was very torn between whether to apply for this role or continue my current role part time, leaving me more time at home with my daughter. However, this position doesn’t come up very often and I’d probably kick myself if I didn’t go for it.
Having a baby can definitely change a marriage. I’ve touched a little on the subject already here. Although we are now in a very happy place, lack of sleep and a new addition to the family can be overwhelming and stressful. We fought a lot in the first couple of weeks. Continue reading “Is It OK To Argue In Front Of Your Kids? “
Tonight I snapped it at my husband. I probably shouldn’t have but I did. Since changing Madeleine over to cow’s milk, it has done some odd things to her sleep. She wakes up every few hours overnight and cries to be put back to sleep. I’m one sleep-deprived mumma at the moment and my poor husband is copping it big time. I will have to beg for his forgiveness tomorrow when we are talking again!
Ever since I’ve returned back to my day job, I’ve been struggling with work life balance. When I’m at work, I miss the chaos. I miss being in charge and the thrill of going up the corporate ladder. When I’m at home, I want to be a full time mum. I miss Madeleine and all I want to do, is spend every waking hour with her. The problem is, I want both a stunning career where I do well and get promotions but also be a mother and not miss any of my daughter’s major milestones! I have a severe case of FOMO (fear of missing out) when it comes to my career.